You’re attending a wedding! Fantastic! But remember, being invited to be a part of such a treasured day is an honor, and you should treat it as such. Below are some simple and steadfast rules of etiquette to follow to be the perfect wedding guest.
RSVP on time
Proper etiquette begins before the big day by RSVPing as soon as possible. Guest count is crucial to the wedding planning process, so get those responses back on time.
Follow the dress code
Be sure and read the invitation carefully and double check the wedding website to see specifics regarding the dress code. This will likely vary by formality and location. For example, a black tie wedding may call for you to break out your fanciest cocktail dress, while a small beach wedding may be perfect for that cute sundress you love.
Silence your phone
Before you even enter the ceremony, do everyone a favor and turn off your phone. Not only is it the polite thing to do, but it will nix the need to check it, at least for a while.
Don’t be late
Don’t be the late person sneaking in and disturbing the ceremony. Arrive at least 15 minutes early, as a rule of thumb. It’s always a good idea to add even more extra time for chit-chat that may take place before entering the venue.
Mind your social media manners
It is super important not to post any photos or live streams during the wedding unless the couple specifically asks guests to do so. You want them to have that chance first! Also, make sure to follow any other social media guidelines (likely found on the wedding website), such as using a specific hashtag, tagging the bride and groom, or not posting the location.
Stick to the seating chart
The happy couple have put a lot of work and thought into the seating chart, so sit where you are assigned, not where you feel like. There will be plenty of time to mingle throughout the day or night.
Drink responsibly
Have a good time at the wedding, but don’t go overboard. If you drink, do so in moderation. Also, it is so very important to make arrangements for safe transportation to and from the wedding if you’ve had any alcohol at all, whether you live nearby or have other accommodations.
Gracious Good-byes
As a rule of thumb, it’s in good taste for you to stay at the reception until the wedding cake has been cut. And, before you leave, be sure to congratulate the happy couple and their families and thank them for a wonderful celebration. This small gesture will mean more than you realize.