Writing your own wedding vows is such a lovely way to keep your ceremony personalized and heart felt. But, it can be a bit overwhelming, right? These are words that your love will always remember, so the pressure is on. With that said, there is an easy way to get started on your vows. Simply make notes that answer the following seven questions and go from there. The responses will get your creative juices flowing, as well as bring back some wonderful memories and tear-jerking moments.

1. How did you meet?

2. What were your first impressions of your love?

3. At what moment did you realize you were in love? Describe the feeling, the place, etc.

4. What quirky characteristics do you love most about your partner to-be?

5. What do you most look forward to in the future? 

6. What are some special moments in your relationship? Use them all, even the bad times as well as the happy, moving, or funny.

7. What is your promise(s) to your future spouse? (This is a good way to incorporate some humor as well!)

Once you gather these kinds of details, try writing some drafts in your own words. Be honest and be yourself. Also, it is very important that you be patient with yourself. Take your time and write several drafts if need be.

If you find yourself in doubt, don’t panic. Asking a trusted family member or friend for help. A second set of eyes can go a long way. You can also read the vows out loud to them as practice. Eventually, your vows will form into the perfect words for your perfect d